How to propose marriage?
That's it! You've found your soul mate; you're sure of it! You're ready to take the next step, but you're a little apprehensive. In all honesty, marriage proposals can be quite stressful, especially if you're not particularly romantic.
So we created a guide for those who are wondering, "but how do I propose?"
Our tips for preparing an original marriage proposal
She forced you to listen to romantic comedies countless times. At the time, you liked them (secretly, of course). But now you feel a little like you're up against Matthew McConaughey, Ryan Reynolds, Channing Tatum, Ryan Gossling... and all those other attractive actors who have proposed in grand fashion on the big screen. Hmm... are you getting a little hot under the collar all of a sudden?
Don't worry; we've got it covered! To prepare the perfect proposal, you'll need to:
- Finding the perfect match
- Find the perfect place for your big request
- Prepare a story to attract him to this place
- Know the golden rules of marriage proposal
And, by the way, avoid hiding the ring in food at all costs. She might choke or swallow the ring without even realizing it. Honestly, we can't decide which of these two scenarios is worse! Either way, emergency room waiting rooms are hardly the place to celebrate your engagement!
Hire a photographer
Chances are, you'll want to remember this moment for the rest of your life. You may also want to share it with your loved ones or on social media. Get a professional photographer to capture your happiness when she says "I do".
Don't worry! You won't spoil the surprise. A photographer is like a ninja; they are the pros at being discreet! Tell your concerns to the photographers at 4-celebrations. They will guide you!
Use a wedding proposal organizer
Are you afraid of ruining everything? Did you know that there are people who specialize in wedding proposals? Proposal planners make sure everything is perfect, from the romantic venue to the engagement ring of your dreams!
Don't hesitate to ask an expert for help if you want to plan a memorable proposal!
The golden rules
From buying the wedding ring to getting down on one knee, there's a lot to consider before you make your big proposal.
Here are 4 things that we think are the golden rules of marriage proposal. For the more romantic, these might seem obvious, but we're sharing them anyway for those who might need a little help!
Which knee for a proposal?
We all know what a proposal should look like; a man kneels down in front of his significant other and pulls out a ring; let's take a look at this first step. Is it mandatory to kneel?
Don't worry! Although it is traditional for the groom to propose with his right knee on the ground, it is certainly not mandatory, especially if a physical problem such as a sore knee, for example, prevents you from doing so.
Basically, unless your sweetheart has mentioned that it's a must-have, do what feels natural to you. Chances are, she'll be so thrilled she won't even notice.
Find the perfect ring
It's time to put on your detective hat and find your inner Sherlock!
You are looking for clues that will point you in the right direction. Check her browsing history, without being too nosy, of course. Has she checked out a jewelry store page recently? If she has an Etsy account or a Pinterest account, those are usually good values for finding out what she likes.
You can also ask a close friend or sister to help you. Choose an accomplice who will not spoil the surprise, of course!
Make sure your request doesn't sound too rehearsed
First, try to remember that you are not living in a romantic comedy and you are not a professional actor either. If you prepare an overly elaborate speech, chances are you'll get nervous and forget important things... which will make you even more nervous!
Instead of preparing a speech, we suggest you think of 3 things you absolutely want to share with your lover during this sweet moment. It will be easier to remember and you will sound more sincere.
What to wear?
First, let's think about the practicality of your outfit. If you're planning to kneel, opt for pants that are comfortable and relatively stretchy. You don't want your pants to rip as you're about to make your big ask.
You'll also want to make sure the ring is well hidden yet easily accessible.
Where to propose?
The location of your request will have an impact on the overall atmosphere of the moment. So choose it carefully.
You don't want a curious onlooker to spoil this magical moment.
Places to avoid
Avoid choosing a short-lived location. That restaurant that's all the rage lately may not be popular for long.
Instead, choose a meaningful place that you can return to year after year: a monument, a national park, or a place that has been around for a long time are all good ideas.
Avoid clichés. Also remember that popular places like the Eiffel Tower and Times Square are filled with tourists. You don't want to see your precious application spoiled by a tourist.
Instead, choose an intimate location. If you're going to propose at Disney, for example, see if the staff there can help you with the preparations or recommend a quiet spot.
Avoid proposing at a wedding, even if you have the approval of the newlyweds. You don't want to risk them saying yes simply because they were uncomfortable saying no.
Instead, choose a place that will allow you to create your own memories, or a place that is already part of your history. The place where you first said "I love you" to each other, the place where you shared your first kiss, etc.
When she agrees and you are ready to take the next step, check out our blog. It contains many articles to help you plan the wedding of your dreams!
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